Age:  40

Status:  finally in a healthy relationship                                                  

Business:  Start-Up manager

 

I am not a spiritual person by nature; you can call me a skeptic, which means I do not usually believe in something unless it has been proven scientifically.  But at age 40 after 5 years of not being able to find a steady relationship, my closest friends suggested I go to therapy thinking that perhaps something in my past was blocking me. 

I didn’t quite understand what they meant and I pretty much filtered out what they were trying to tell me.  My reasoning, which I couldn’t quite let go of, was that I knew myself to be a good looking woman, smart, and successful, from a good family; so how could there possibly be a problem.

It took me a few months to convince myself that I had nothing to lose but I remained pretty skeptical about the whole thing.  I had never been to any kind of therapy, that’s how disbelieving I was in the whole process. 

In my first interaction with Carmen over the phone, even before I started therapy, I told her “I don’t have a lot of patience, I want to know that this is not a long process that never ends” and Carmen replied with true

self-assuredness that she works with people like me all the time and that it is crucial to understand that the therapy requires me to work” I knew that if there was a system out there that can help me this is it.  After further researching the methodology, I’m the type of person that needs to do in order to feel that I am moving forward, I realized that this method suits me perfectly because that is what PRT does.  It requires you to work to achieve your goals.  I decided to go for it, and it turned out to be one of the best decisions I ever made. 

I got to Carmen not really knowing what it was I needed to fix, I just knew that I could not find that relationship

I was looking for. 

Throughout my work with Carmen, I came to realize so many things about myself and how I see the world. 

I saw improvement in many aspects of my life and incredibly enough they came without effort.  I started to truly love and accept myself like never before.  I started understanding what it is I truly want in a relationship and what my hopes are, all things I had never considered before.

Today I can say with confidence that I love and respect myself, and I am in that loving and healthy relationship I had always dreamt of.

To truly learn about yourself and make the changes you seek; makes this the best therapy method I could ever have hoped for.